Sorry for the absence

I have decided to reduce my blogging in order to hopefully make it less mundane as i aim for quality over quantity. So heres our life over the last few weeks aswell as dealing with increasing tantrums we had J 2nd birthday an event with had ups and downs downs being family that should of come not bothering hurtful but unfortnate. But I decided to cater and plan the party myself a task which i have been called mad for doing but overall a good day was had by all. My concerns now lie in getting J to sleep in  junior bed without wanting to run off out in his room and potty training which in all honesty is going at a snails pace. But we seem to have won a battle in getting J to walk like a big boy now rather than use the buggy so much one less thing to lug around and as a parent knows thats always a god send having one less thing to lumber around. I have watched another of these reality shows around parenting and too not repeat my earlier rant I turned it off. No wonder young parents get no respect. On top of lifes trials and tribulations I have had to be tough mum and push my pains to the side as i have been dealing with a horrid bbout of tooth/earache for days now but as all mums know we just have to get up and get on with it and thats exactly what i have done. so i sign off for now having got a hack of a day aheado f me but will be back soon too fill you in again.